You are correct, it's not needed.Mightysword wrote: ↑Sat, 29. Feb 20, 00:07the intro with a disclaimer like "remember kid the story I'm about to tell you is pure fiction, there is no talking horse, and you gonna die if you jump into boiling water whether you're good person or not."
I think I need more concrete examples then, since I am not necessarily talking about works of fiction in general, just Santa's folklore.
My sibling's two kids received presents for Christmas, from parents, and from us. When they were opening them, I was instructed not to say who it was from, since I knew. I didnt understand why initially, but ok. Turns out the kids were repeatedly told it was from Santa, all the gifts they've received from all family members.
This isnt leaving up to kids figuring out, or reading them fairy tales, - this specifically parents choosing to tell the kids that Santa is in fact real, and from what I understand, with the complete Santa's package.
And they believe it, because that's what little kids do when parents tell them about things.
I suppose so. Math was considered important where I was growing up, even in weakest of schools.Mightysword wrote: ↑Sat, 29. Feb 20, 00:07Good for you. Most people I talked to shared the experience I mentioned, and I have several text book from different country that says the same things.
In this case it's useful to associate with a different concept that they see, - the fairy tales, make belief, pretend. Kid understand those.Mightysword wrote: ↑Sat, 29. Feb 20, 00:07Kids tend to be very straight forward in their thinking: lie is bad + fiction is a lie = fiction is bad.
doubting what people say, I think is close to the word skepticism, even though it's sometimes synonyms with cynicismMightysword wrote: ↑Sat, 29. Feb 20, 00:07No, I mean exactly what I said, and I'm using the words as I intended. You might not interpret in the way I do, but I'm not choosing the wrong word to express my view here.
I agree.Observe wrote: ↑Fri, 28. Feb 20, 23:32I think parents should explain to their children, that Santa is one of many false narratives that they will hear in life. It can be an excellent opportunity to assist children in being able to separate fact from fiction. This is an increasingly important skill as people learn to cope with sophisticated market-economy driven stories that seek to manipulate their emotions and their choices.
At the very young age, I think it's sufficient to properly place Santa into fairy tales categories, along with all fairy tales characters.
Later on, maybe talk about the ideas of fictions, stories, and factual writings.