eladan wrote:
In all of this discussion, I've not yet seen an argument as to why there is a statue of him at all. History already records his actions. There is no requirement that someone, great general or not, have a statue to be remembered by. Particularly so for someone on a losing side - they are often controversial figures because they were on the losing side.
You are half right in pointing out the fact that why erecting monuments for figures of the losing side. But this exception - to the American Civil War - it's not something symbolize hatred or such, but something to be admired.
I came from a country that fought a civil war too (in fact pretty much the reasons and a few millions of people like me are in the US), I came from the losing side of course. But let me tell you the "aftermatch" of the war:
- To those who fought and alive: they were put in concentration camps for years and decade. My father got 7 years, his commanding general got 20, many of his combrade never come back from those camps.
- Those those who didn't fight and alive: abuse, displacement, prosecution.
- To those who died, military or civilian: desecration. They destroyed a majority of our cemeteries right after war under different guise (like urban planning).
There was no afford for reconciliation, even today half a century later, people like my father are still labelled as traitors, unpatriotic, turn coat and all the other pretty names. Even today the veterans of the losing side can't have a get together without the risk of they will be caught and prosecute under the pretense of "planning to destabilize the government". Our flag, our symbol, insignia ... you only gonna put it up if you're ready to go to jail the next day, hell, probably as soon as that evening.
So you know, when I came to the US, when I see the statues of Robert Lee, when I see the Gettysburg's cemetery treasure both Union and Confederate soldiers, when I see someone driving a car with the Confederate flag emblems, or driving past a house with it hanging on the port, when I see soldiers on both side are equally honored on Memorial days, and Confederate veterans/families can have open getogether to talk about old times ... I don't see these as symbol of hatred and division, rather I feel a deep admiration because it showed to me that the America people was able to do something that my people never could, and a such, I consider the American culture is far superior to the pettiness of my own culture.
Grant is probably one of the worst President ever had, and by his battlefield account and tactic, and pretty ruthless and bloodthirsty general too. But he always has my respect for despising being all that, he already thought about reconciliation even before the final bullet was fired. I think the most memorable things about Grant is when he shunt the celebration of his own men after Lee's surrender saying "The rebels are now once again our brothers, we should not celebrate their defeat". And again, if you study history you will also realize, Lee is one of the central figure in the South after the war that pushed for reconciliation, just like before the war, he tried to stop the secessionists.
Figure and symbols, they don't carry or have any meaning themselves, but only the meaning we decide to associate them with:
- Will we celebrate Washington the first President, or will we celebrate Washington the slave owner?
- Will we celebrate the founding fathers for the wisdom they left us with the constitution. Or we will celebrate their failure in granting every human equal right in the same documents (black and women).
- Will we celebrate Lee as a patriot figure (and yes he is a patriot), a symbol of reconciliation. Or will we celebrate him as a "defender of Slavery"?
That is completely up to us, and again I say this, if we let the action of few extremists to soil these figures and symbol for us, then they win, and it is our loss.
PS: just to add something more. The nice thing about living in a society is that the people you respect or idealize don't have to be perfect. Say like "Great Father Kim" or "Brother Castro" are perfect being that have no fault (to a point you would wonder why these guys haven't become a saint) already. We choose to celebrate the positive of their life, but leave their flaws intact in history.